Flirt & Dating

Flirt.com has been in the industry for a while now and during the years of its operation has managed to garner an impressive number of users. Besides, a lot of Flirt dating site reviews mention the fact that the activity on the website is high, users are interacting with each other, and more and more new people are registering on the service. Apparently the company FLIRT was bought out by CUPID, so another one to be wary of. Thanks to this website TRUSTPILOT for allowing the truth to be heard, Unlike some of the other sites recommending this dating site, probably put up there by the CUPID owners. Hope this is helpful to everyone one. What Is Flirt? This review section will tell you about the history of the Flirt dating site. The service is a branch of the world-famous Cupid PLC corporation, which helps single people find an excellent partner. The dating site began work in 2009, having received official licenses. Flirt.com is owned by Together Networks, which owns a number of global dating sites and has more than 100 million users. Flirt has been around since 1997 and now operates in 45 countries. The website features thorough explanations of its policies and user and privacy terms, and offers a comprehensive guide to safe online dating protocols. Start dating. Now that your profile is complete, you can start meeting new singles. Simply initiate conversations with people you find interesting, your soul mate is waiting for you to make the first move. 381 reviews for Flirt.com, 2.8 stars: 'Come on, guys :)) Look at any other dating apps and sites, on every such application lots of spam, fake girls, web cam girls, and so on and so forth. Ok, maybe Tinder is better, but how much girls you hooked up there? :) Tinder now is like a dating Facebook. Even HRs recrut there :) Of course, Flirt isn't ideal dating site, but if you turn your brains on ...

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2013.10.30 20:10 DatingCoachKK Dating advice for online daters

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2020.09.18 15:02 kensween1200 Obsessing over the other girl

Hello, I (19F) cannot stop obsessing over the girl my ex used to make me jealous after the break up. They didn’t ever date or hook up or anything but he’d flirt with her to make me upset . Back then, from about March to July, I’d obsessively go through her social media, tho ive stopped doing so now. The issue now is I can’t stop comparing myself to her- particularly my chest size- obsessing over if she has a bigger chest than I do, and if she has a better body than I do. It’s really starting to take a toll on my mental health, and I’d appreciate any advice anyone has on how to get over this constant self comparison !
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2020.09.18 14:18 Otherwise-Stupid07 [crushes] why is having a crush so hard

So i met this girl from my online, and we’ve been texting a lot, along with some other kids from the same class. I haven’t known her for that long, but i can already tell i like her but it’s so frustrating. We’re both bi, we both “jokingly” flirt with each other, and so do our other friends. But then we also joke about how we’re married, and we call each other cute names like bae, darling, love and it’s just like dhhdhdjskaidhdbdhdjsj
The idea of genuinely dating has been brought up, but every time it is, we just kinda laugh it off by saying “oh we can’t date we’re already married.” And the last time it was brought up we just kept saying “unless?” AND ITS SO FRUSTRATING LIKE WE DONT KNOW IF THE OTHER ONE IS JOKING OR NOT and idk what to do :D The only thing that makes me think it really all is a joke, is because she’s said she doesn’t want to date irl yet- does that mean all my chances are over? Honestly I just have no idea what we are to each other...
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2020.09.18 13:00 jonathon8903 How often does feelings of regret/anger come up?

Hi I’ve been a lurker here for a while and feel it’s my time to put my post out here.
I’m 26M she’s 24F
To give a shortened version of my marriage story, my wife and I started dating after her birthday party (we had a mutual friend before and this is how we reconnected). We seemed to do pretty good after we got through the akward phase. She moved in with me almost immediately and I had just moved out of my moms place so I welcomed the company (and extra sex of course). After a few months we discovered that she was pregnant. She was scared and I was too but I loved her and thought we would make it work. Well a few months later we have a disagreement when goes to see her mom in Virginia and takes another guy with her. She claimed that he was “like a brother” well we break up because of this and she spends the night in a hotel room with him and later gets sexually involved with him.
Of course I’m heart broken and her family calls her dumb (for more reasons than just this) we eventually reconnect and we decide to marry (really bad mistake on my part) we did good for a while until she leaves ago the next year. We both have a falling out and to be fair while she hooked up with a guy, I also caught feelings for another girl. We talked through that and made up. We eventually started talking as if our relationship was solid and I’m feeling good. I felt like I was doing okay as a husband, I worked and she was stay at home. Even though she didn’t clean much I stopped griping about it and left her alone most days. I always called her beautiful and sexy. I played with her whenever I could and had the energy to. Everything felt good. Well right before her last trip to her moms we talked about spicing things up in the bedroom because we both felt it was getting bland. She wanted a threesome with a guy. I wasn’t quite ready for that arrangement so I suggested swinging. She initially agreed but after returning said she didn’t want it.
When she returned from her trip, she told me she wanted an open relationship. She posed it like an open conversation but I felt undertones like I didn’t really have a choice in the matter. So I agreed and tried to be a good husband. I’m not going to lie, I have some trust issues and followed everything pretty closely. She stated I was being controlling however I still legitimately believe I was trying to keep her safe. Her first meetup with a guy she got in his vehicle when I had asked her to keep meetups in open areas. She says he kept feeling her up and it made her uncomfortable which further pushed my point of safety.
Anyways later on, she started talking to this one guy but it started to feel romantic. She claimed they were just friends but honestly when you read the conversation you can tell there is more to it. I kept telling her she needed to be more careful. I wasn’t comfortable with anything poly like and frankly just a friends with benefits arrangement. This happens like twice and we had some fights about how I wasn’t comfortable and yet she didn’t seem to really care and kept trying to move me past my emotions so she could keep doing what she was doing.
Finally about a month from now she sat me on the couch and said ever since she has come back from the trip that she hasn’t felt like she was in love with me anymore. This was hard but I tried to take it in stride. I thought okay this happens we can move past it right? Well wrong, I see that she is still flirting heavily with the same dude so finally I told her that either she can stop with him for a month and work on us or we separate. She pretty much instantly said “ Fine we are separated “ and within a week after she began moving her stuff out of the house.
Later she claimed I was controlling and she felt I was always trying to sabotage the open relationship. She also wanted to claim that I took her for granted. I never tried to sabotage it but I was always clear how I felt about it. I’d give honest advice if I felt a guy seemed unsafe and then some guys I did actually say seemed okay. I always wanted to know about what was going on because I truely was scared of what could happen to her when she was out by herself meeting strange guys. I’ll admit that I got busy with work for a few weeks and was less attentive at home because work stress was a lot. I’d also counter that though with the fact that she was less attentive and affectionate in the last few weeks before separation.
Sorry about the rant
TL/Dr: Nearly 4 year marriage ended by my wife. She pushed for open relationship and I grudgingly agreed. She said she was no longer in love with me but kept things going on with a FWB and when I confronted her on this she decided to separate. Feelings are hard as fuck! How do you deal?
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2020.09.18 12:58 emiemi98 I feel guilty for ruining my friendship

Hey, shalligators!
I am new to this forum, I have read a few posts and I like it so much so I decided to write about a problem I have at the moment and that is occupying my time and energy.
I have a male friend with whom I have spend almost one year of non-stop everyday chatting and going out in the park, he used to walk me home after that always (I really found this very sweet), playing music together, watching movies etc.. I have become very fond of him and lately I see him as more than a friend. So once there was a night where I lost my keys and I had nowhere to go, he invited me to stay at his place. We slept on one bed, nothing happened between us .. I really wanted some confirmation that he likes me and I couldn't sleep all through they night, but nothing happened. Then all of a sudden after this the next days he becomes distant, he ghosts me, he is replying very vague to my messages, I confronted him and asked him what is going on, have I offended him or something, he says he has work and doesn't have time. Anyway, 2 weeks after my birthday comes up, I invite him, he is in a very good mood, he is being nice to all of my friends, he flirts with me, he walks me home again and then the next day things get back to normal, he is friendly again but he doesn't initiate our "dates" anymore. I have to be the one asking him when he is free or available.. And then 1 month after is his birthday, he doesn't invite me, although he told me he has invited some friends over that night to celebrate. I was sad about this but I asked like a joke ( Are you drinking without me this night?) And he says... sorry I forgot to send you the invite??? if you want come over.. It was a bullshit excuse but anyway, I went because that night I wanted to tell him how I felt for him. I went there to the party and at the end of the night when everybody got home, I told him I had feelings, I kissed him, he didn't respond he just hugged me for 5 mins, then he said he doesn't know how he feels and that he is very confused and that he has a lot of things going on in his mind. He said he knew about my feelings for some time and that is why he has been pulling away. Then he hugs me for more than 20 mins, just like this without anything sexual.. And I was very confused. We said goodnight after that, I went home and he hasn't made contact with me in 8 days since then. I haven't texted either cause I didn't want to bother him.
I am so sorry if this is such a long post, I just wanted to give you all the details. I really miss him as a friend and I feel very guilty of doing all this and ruining our friendship. I don't know what to do.
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2020.09.18 12:19 GeoffleeRee Should I tell my friend that I like her cousin?

I (21M) met a girl (we'll call her M, 18F) a few months back while playing games with my friend (B). Over the past few months we've really gotten close and I really like her. I invited her to lunch this weekend and she said yes. She asked that we bring "B" along as well, which I agreed to (yeah it might've been a mistake, might not have been, but we're past that since I already made up my mind to go). My friend B has a super bubbly personality and while we didn't talk too much back in high school, we knew each other pretty well and had similar hobbies and personalities. All 3 of us are still very in touch, we play games together on the weekends and still message each other every day.
I was thinking about if I should tell her that I like M, who is her cousin. I wanted to maybe get some suggestions on what to buy her or what to surprise her with. Also, I know I may be a wuss for thinking this, but I wanted to see what M thought of me as well. I'm 95% certain there is mutual attraction, but sometimes there are mixed signals. I would just ask her directly, but I wanted to ask M to a second date with just the 2 of us after this weekend, then tell her how I feel.
On the other hand, I understand that they're family so even though "B" has a positive opinion of me, I'm not sure how it would sit with her... She might already have an idea that I like "M" since she and I called almost every day until classes started, and she knew about that. I'm just not sure what I should do. It would also be awkward and hard to flirt with "M" with "B" around when we meet this weekend if she didn't know how I felt towards her, since "B" is a super "bro" type of friend.
Really stressing about this whole situation so any constructive feedback or constructive criticism is greatly welcome and needed!
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2020.09.18 11:07 FishermanForsaken129 (32M) I was just texted by a woman (32F) claiming my friend (32M) and I ignored her refusals during an encounter with her and bruised her while grabbing her boobs almost 6 years ago. I did not do this. There has been no mention of legal action, but I'm stressed and need advice.

I live in Utah. I had an encounter with this woman about 6 years ago; I'm not certain on the exact date. We had texted flirtatiously beforehand; she opened up about her bisexuality and interest in sub/dom relationships. I had known her since high school. We have several mutual friends, two of which had a MMF threesome with her. I've since been married and have been for 2 years.
During the encounter, I was with another guy friend, and she was encouraging us to drink heavily. We finished a bottle of rum between us and were quite intoxicated. She didn't drink at all, and we never pressured her to. She shared an online folder of her nudes with us. She also encouraged me and my guy friend to take our clothes off, and we were doing handstands and acting silly while she took pictures of us. During this time, we were all having fun to my knowledge.
While flirting together, she willingly exposed her boobs to us both, and we started kissing while my guy friend and I started touching her breasts. After a few moments, she pulled away and loudly said "Stop!" We were surprised and embarrassed, and we immediately stopped. No sex of any kind was had.
We carried on with the night just fine (that said, memory is a bit fuzzy due to the alcohol,) and she even texted me back that she'd had a fun night the next morning. She never indicated to me that it was traumatic for her, and we even texted a few times over the next weeks or months before she simply disappeared off the map.
Yet, two days ago she texts me out of nowhere during work. She claimed that her counselor encouraged her to reach out to me for closure on the situation. She accused my friend and I of continuing to try and grab her boobs after she said no multiple times, and that we bruised her, and she'd been hurt by it.
I didn't admit guilt to ignoring lack of consent or hurting her, but I wanted to validate her feelings of grief and trauma. I apologized to her for unknowingly causing her pain, and that I wished there was something I could do. I legitimately do feel horrible that she experienced pain over the situation, and that I'd had no idea. She then suddenly stopped texting me. I haven't heard from her since.
But I've been on the verge of an anxiety attack for the past two days. I've heard nothing of criminal charges, but I'm feeling incredibly paranoid. It could destroy my career. I know that statute of limitations is a definite factor, but I'm not aware of what potential charges she might come up with, if any, or how it works.
Does it sound like I could be charged with something, everything considered? What should I do?
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2020.09.18 10:39 backwardsmonstera To the two boys in my college class.

I loved you from afar. We sat together. We talked. We laughed. We shared things together. What we do in our spare time. What we collect that people don’t know about. But for me it was a little more. We connected...
I think you two boys taught me a lot about what I am. Even if you will never know. When I was in 4th grade I had two boyfriends. They were best friends before we all started dating. All three of us were in a relationship. We were too young to know what a real relationship was... but somehow our 4th grade relationship was healthier than adult relationships.
We weren’t polluted by society’s expectations of a relationship. We didn’t know that our love was controversial. It was just that. Unconditional love only children can give. We were open to the idea that we could love more than one person at a time. Well after all we each had siblings. If a parent can love more than one child then why is our love selective when it comes to relationships? Why are we expected to find one person that’s supposed to matter more than everyone else in our life? That seems like too much pressure to put on one person.
And I haven’t thought about my two 4th grade boyfriends in a long time until I met you two boys. There were many things I loved about both of you individually and together. Individually, K I loved that you were more shy. I loved that you got nervous. I loved that once you warmed up that you were extremely hyper- maybe a little too much because you were still nervous. I loved how smart you were. How much awareness you had of the world. And T. I loved you because of your quiet confidence. Even your unintentional movements seemed intentional. I loved that you were steady and calm. I loved that you felt comfortable enough to flirt. Were you flirting?
I think you were a little. And I think that K was very jealous even though he would never tell you or me. I loved your love for each other. How you guys would walk after class to the gym to work out together. I think you decided to take that class together. I loved your boys’ laugh. The type of laugh that only boys can do together. I loved that you T always gave K more confidence. I loved that you hyped him up and gave him compliments. And K, I loved that you could be fun and hyper and push T to have a good time.
I wish I knew you boys better. I wish that it was acceptable in society to pursue two boys. I wish that you boys wouldn’t judge me for wanting both of you. I wish that we were close. That we could all do things together. I wish that I would come over and you two were playing video games together.
I think this is the way I am. It’s a curse to be able to love more than one person. Because everyone else isn’t capable. Not in this way at least. It makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me. Maybe there is. But I do know one thing. The 4th grade me felt more accepted and loved than I have ever felt since.
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2020.09.18 10:34 Pekkachu143 AITBF - I had sex with a 15 yo when I was 18

When I was 17, I met this guy at my highschool. He told me he was 16. I had never dated a guy more than a few months younger than me but I thought a year was not a huge deal. We flirted and hung out for like 6 months straight nearly every day after school. 3 months after I turned 18 (he was 1 month away from “turning 17”) he asked me over one night and he initiated sex. This was the second time I ever had sex in my life. The first time I was 13 and insanely pressured and I was raped at 15. So having sex again was a big deal to me, but my feelings for him were pretty strong and I thought maybe he was the right guy. The next day I discovered his true age when his cousin told me he had a girlfriend and spilled all the tea to me. I felt really sick at the time. I never spoke to him again. I’m now 26 and I still feel guilt over what happened.
Please keep in mind he also appeared the age he was saying he was. There was no way I would have guessed he was 15. Also I knew he had sex with my friend “V” and she was a year older than me. Nothing about him led me to think he was 15. But I know this is something that could have landed me in jail. Should I feel guilt over this?
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2020.09.18 09:30 pathfinderoursaviour AITA: For developing feelings for a friend who already has a bf

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There is this girl who I am friends with she moved to my country a few years ago and I started talking to her we had a lot in common around this time she started dating a friend of mine not close but not a distant friend I still continued to hang out with her and we still chatted she was always very flirty with me and I didn’t care at the time she would kiss me on the cheek but I didn’t mind I say her as a good friend but fast forward a year and I stayed noticing things about her that I like her personality little things she does like flicking her hair when she flirted with me I flirted back and it went on for a couple of months I realised what was happening and I tried to stay away but I can’t stop feeling like this her bf got mad at me and told me to stop and proceeded to send me horrible messages and then blocked me on her phone (I know it’s not her cause she still talks to me) I have stayed away but I can’t stop feeling this way I haven’t tried to break them up and I’m still nice to both of them but am I the asshole for feeling this way I didn’t originally and I never thought I would had I known I would have stayed away
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2020.09.18 09:09 GreenSpace3321 Does she like me or not ?

I am so confused about this girl who I’m friends with since elementary school.
She flirted with me, always calls me best friend , buys me gifts , go to the mall a lot , calls me , asks me the answers for the class work and the homework.
She teases me by insulting me and I insult her back fur fun, sends me heart emojis laughs at my jokes , never leaves me on read , plays around with me. I asked her “ remember when someone we should date “ and she was mike “ lol , we’re just friends ,” and I asked if she likes me three times and she said “ as a friend “
If I ask her about the time she flirted with me , she’s gonna be like “ I remember any of that anf were just best friends “ and once texted “ I don’t lie you as a friend “ even tho she played around with me about about us not being best friends but we are. Probably forgot the comma, I don’t want to ruin the friendship at all. She even once whispered to her friend “ I think he likes me , he could “ well I honestly don’t care and I don’t lie her that way at all but if she wants to date, we can.
I sometimes feel like she’s a not a good friend and just using me for the work but i don’t think so since she is like a good friend, and said “ if I didn’t want to be your friend , I would’ve not follow you on social media” Sorry for the very long paragraph but I just need some advice and to share.
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2020.09.18 08:19 ratgirlunlimited I like flirting w people.. but am scared of it turning into something real. How do I work this out with myself?

I’m in my mid/almost late20’s here and I like being single and flirting with guys. Well I say I ‘like’ it but I don’t know any different. I guess one can read it as I’m not ‘ready to date’ but I’ve been this way all my youth- wanting to start a spark but too scared of actually going through with it. When an actually good guy comes along and we hit it off, I somehow sabotage and then blame it on my work, like ‘Oh, I needed to focus on my career anyways’. But I don’t want this to go on forever, and I’m not sure how to get past this dilemma. I’m young and I have time I know. But I’ve always had trouble getting close to anyone- friends or lovers, and I want to get past this blockage before half my life is over. I don’t know how to let people in.. and I don’t know how to work this out. Any first steps I can take, for those who have been in a similar situation? Or even any stories would be nice to hear.
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2020.09.18 08:13 hologram96 She asked me out for coffee but said she's only free next month?

So I've been flirting with her over insta DMs around the beginning of this year (a millennial cliche, I know). I recently responded to her IG story after she watched Tenet earlier this month and we had a friendly discussion about films. A few texts in and she asked if I wanted to "grab coffee one day".
Of course I said sure and asked when. She replied saying she's pretty busy this month and said let's do early October. Not sure if it's just me but that's like a month later.. Usually if I asked someone out on a date, it'll be arranged about a week, at most 2 weeks in advance?
She does have quite a busy job and I totally understand that she may have other priorities besides dating at the moment. I guess I'm just wondering why she asked me out if she didn't currently have much time on her hands at THIS point in time. (tbh I'm also a little anxious that come early Oct, she wouldn't even initiate setting a proper date, and I've to be like... "Hey so are we meeting?")
Just wanted a second opinion! What'd you guys think?
(FYI I'm a woman)
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2020.09.18 07:52 anonthrowawayhi I (M 20) fucked up by making her (F 19) uncomfortable. I apologized, or so I thought but it didn't send. Now she's understandably upset.

I've known this girl for 2-3 years. We have been close friends before and then fought, eventually made up and then weren't as close for about a year. We went on and off about 3 times. The last time we fought was in december, and then we started talking again in July.
She has been sending me a lot of snaps and personal videos of her talking about her and her day recently, mirror selfies, making plans with me, asking for personal advice, etc. Basically getting very close with me yet again. She then told me about how she is finally having a date for the first time in a while, so I made a joke about how "the poor guy has no idea youre already madly in love with me " and also "if someone saw how much you've been snapping me they'd definitely think you're falling for me lol"
She responded negatively, saying* "dawg thats a no from me"* and I didn't respond to this since there was no opening for me to respond. She later double snapped me, saying "And things like that are exactly what I mean when I say you make me uncomfortable sometimes" "I know you're kidding but that's also obviously flirting with me and I'm not about it" "Stay in your lane" pretty harsh for a light tease in my opinion, but none the less I acknowledge that I fucked up by making her uncomfortable.
I opened this snap and didn't respond since I was legitimately busy, but she later double snaps me saying "Odd that you didn't acknowledge any of that" I respond with "I was busy and forgot to respond" "It was never my intention to make you uncomfortable" She opens instantly, responding "Yeah right" I left this on open too because I was busy but also just wasn't ready to respond. I later sent a snap at around 1 am, giving her a genuine apology, here's what it said:
*"hey i've seriously had a busy day, i wouldn't intentionally leave you on open when you express your discomfort like this. i should of communicated that more properly this afternoon, i'm sorry.
even if i was kidding and it wasn't my intention to make you uncomfortable, the fact is I still did. It's my fault for making you feel like that.
I know i've made you uncomfy in the past, and I am striving to be the best man I can be so that it won't happen again. I am sincerely sorry (name)." *
Except this snap didn't send. I don't know how or why, but my snaps late that night didn't send so she woke up, thought I had left her on open all night, and removed me on snap.
The next day I message her on another platform and ask "Um... Is everything ok?" since I was so confused that she removed me when I apologized (or so I thought).
Here's how the conversation went -
Me: "Um...Is everything ok?"
Her: "dawg I literally expressed how uncomfortable you made me and you brushed it off like it was nothing. I’m not gonna keep being on and off friends with you. Notice how every time we stop being friends it’s because you’ve made me uncomfortable?? not a power move dude imma head out"
Me: "Wait I'm really confused... did you not see what I last said to you monday night??"
Her: "dude you mean the same apology you give every time? “It wasn’t my intention” I do not have time for this kinda stuff at this point in my life (m). I’m sorry but I just can’t"
Me: "no no no, I sent a snap after you said "yeah right" with a genuine apology, did you not get it?"
Her: "nope I unadded you after that"
Me: "I sent you the snap at like 1 am and you didn't have me unadded at that time, sounds like it didn't send omg (facepalm)" "i was really confused when you said I brushed off your feelings when i had already addressed it"
She left this last message on open. Did I not leave any room for her to respond, like for her to ask me for the apology that was supposed to be delivered? I was thinking about telling her "Im certain now that this is a big misunderstanding(regarding that i didnt respond) so let me get this straight: You never got my snap I sent at 1 am where I acknowledged your feelings and apologized, and this made you feel like I had completely brushed them off and didn't care about your feelings right?" although I don't know if its best to double text her, or just send the screenshot of the apology snap.
tl;dr I made a light tease to a girl ive known for a few years, she got uncomfy from it, I was busy that day and didn't really respond properly until late at night, and the response didn't send so she unadded me the next day.
I would like to know what the best course of action would be to make up here and continue being friends with her, cause the fact is I really did mean to send this apology and show her that I respect her and care about her feelings. I really enjoy her company and want to keep her in my life right now. What is the best way to go about this sticky situation and misunderstanding?
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2020.09.18 07:52 anonthrowawayhi I (M 20) fucked up by making her (F 19) uncomfortable. I apologized, or so I thought but it didn't send. Now she's understandably upset.

I've known this girl for 2-3 years. We have been close friends before and then fought, eventually made up and then weren't as close for about a year. We went on and off about 3 times. The last time we fought was in december, and then we started talking again in July.
She has been sending me a lot of snaps and personal videos of her talking about her and her day recently, mirror selfies, making plans with me, asking for personal advice, etc. Basically getting very close with me yet again. She then told me about how she is finally having a date for the first time in a while, so I made a joke about how "the poor guy has no idea youre already madly in love with me " and also "if someone saw how much you've been snapping me they'd definitely think you're falling for me lol"
She responded negatively, saying* "dawg thats a no from me"* and I didn't respond to this since there was no opening for me to respond. She later double snapped me, saying "And things like that are exactly what I mean when I say you make me uncomfortable sometimes" "I know you're kidding but that's also obviously flirting with me and I'm not about it" "Stay in your lane" pretty harsh for a light tease in my opinion, but none the less I acknowledge that I fucked up by making her uncomfortable.
I opened this snap and didn't respond since I was legitimately busy, but she later double snaps me saying "Odd that you didn't acknowledge any of that" I respond with "I was busy and forgot to respond" "It was never my intention to make you uncomfortable" She opens instantly, responding "Yeah right" I left this on open too because I was busy but also just wasn't ready to respond. I later sent a snap at around 1 am, giving her a genuine apology, here's what it said:
*"hey i've seriously had a busy day, i wouldn't intentionally leave you on open when you express your discomfort like this. i should of communicated that more properly this afternoon, i'm sorry.
even if i was kidding and it wasn't my intention to make you uncomfortable, the fact is I still did. It's my fault for making you feel like that.
I know i've made you uncomfy in the past, and I am striving to be the best man I can be so that it won't happen again. I am sincerely sorry (name)." *
Except this snap didn't send. I don't know how or why, but my snaps late that night didn't send so she woke up, thought I had left her on open all night, and removed me on snap.
The next day I message her on another platform and ask "Um... Is everything ok?" since I was so confused that she removed me when I apologized (or so I thought).
Here's how the conversation went -
Me: "Um...Is everything ok?"
Her: "dawg I literally expressed how uncomfortable you made me and you brushed it off like it was nothing. I’m not gonna keep being on and off friends with you. Notice how every time we stop being friends it’s because you’ve made me uncomfortable?? not a power move dude imma head out"
Me: "Wait I'm really confused... did you not see what I last said to you monday night??"
Her: "dude you mean the same apology you give every time? “It wasn’t my intention” I do not have time for this kinda stuff at this point in my life (m). I’m sorry but I just can’t"
Me: "no no no, I sent a snap after you said "yeah right" with a genuine apology, did you not get it?"
Her: "nope I unadded you after that"
Me: "I sent you the snap at like 1 am and you didn't have me unadded at that time, sounds like it didn't send omg (facepalm)" "i was really confused when you said I brushed off your feelings when i had already addressed it"
She left this last message on open. Did I not leave any room for her to respond, like for her to ask me for the apology that was supposed to be delivered? I was thinking about telling her "Im certain now that this is a big misunderstanding(regarding that i didnt respond) so let me get this straight: You never got my snap I sent at 1 am where I acknowledged your feelings and apologized, and this made you feel like I had completely brushed them off and didn't care about your feelings right?" although I don't know if its best to double text her, or just send the screenshot of the apology snap.
tl;dr I made a light tease to a girl ive known for a few years, she got uncomfy from it, I was busy that day and didn't really respond properly until late at night, and the response didn't send so she unadded me the next day.
I would like to know what the best course of action would be to make up here and continue being friends with her, cause the fact is I really did mean to send this apology and show her that I respect her and care about her feelings. I really enjoy her company and want to keep her in my life right now. What is the best way to go about this sticky situation and misunderstanding?
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2020.09.18 07:49 anonthrowawayhi I (M 20) fucked up by making her (F 19) uncomfortable. I apologized, or so I thought but it didn't send. Now she's understandably upset.

I've known this girl for 2-3 years. We have been close friends before and then fought, eventually made up and then weren't as close for about a year. We went on and off about 3 times. The last time we fought was in december, and then we started talking again in July.
She has been sending me a lot of snaps and personal videos of her talking about her and her day recently, mirror selfies, making plans with me, asking for personal advice, etc. Basically getting very close with me yet again. She then told me about how she is finally having a date for the first time in a while, so I made a joke about how "the poor guy has no idea youre already madly in love with me " and also "if someone saw how much you've been snapping me they'd definitely think you're falling for me lol"
She responded negatively, saying* "dawg thats a no from me"* and I didn't respond to this since there was no opening for me to respond. She later double snapped me, saying "And things like that are exactly what I mean when I say you make me uncomfortable sometimes" "I know you're kidding but that's also obviously flirting with me and I'm not about it" "Stay in your lane" pretty harsh for a light tease in my opinion, but none the less I acknowledge that I fucked up by making her uncomfortable.
I opened this snap and didn't respond since I was legitimately busy, but she later double snaps me saying "Odd that you didn't acknowledge any of that" I respond with "I was busy and forgot to respond" "It was never my intention to make you uncomfortable" She opens instantly, responding "Yeah right" I left this on open too because I was busy but also just wasn't ready to respond. I later sent a snap at around 1 am, giving her a genuine apology, here's what it said:
*"hey i've seriously had a busy day, i wouldn't intentionally leave you on open when you express your discomfort like this. i should of communicated that more properly this afternoon, i'm sorry.
even if i was kidding and it wasn't my intention to make you uncomfortable, the fact is I still did. It's my fault for making you feel like that.
I know i've made you uncomfy in the past, and I am striving to be the best man I can be so that it won't happen again. I am sincerely sorry (name)." *
Except this snap didn't send. I don't know how or why, but my snaps late that night didn't send so she woke up, thought I had left her on open all night, and removed me on snap.
The next day I message her on another platform and ask "Um... Is everything ok?" since I was so confused that she removed me when I apologized (or so I thought).
Here's how the conversation went -
Me: "Um...Is everything ok?"
Her: "dawg I literally expressed how uncomfortable you made me and you brushed it off like it was nothing. I’m not gonna keep being on and off friends with you. Notice how every time we stop being friends it’s because you’ve made me uncomfortable?? not a power move dude imma head out"
Me: "Wait I'm really confused... did you not see what I last said to you monday night??"
Her: "dude you mean the same apology you give every time? “It wasn’t my intention” I do not have time for this kinda stuff at this point in my life (m). I’m sorry but I just can’t"
Me: "no no no, I sent a snap after you said "yeah right" with a genuine apology, did you not get it?"
Her: "nope I unadded you after that"
Me: "I sent you the snap at like 1 am and you didn't have me unadded at that time, sounds like it didn't send omg (facepalm)" "i was really confused when you said I brushed off your feelings when i had already addressed it"
She left this last message on open. Did I not leave any room for her to respond, like for her to ask me for the apology that was supposed to be delivered? I was thinking about telling her "Im certain now that this is a big misunderstanding(regarding that i didnt respond) so let me get this straight: You never got my snap I sent at 1 am where I acknowledged your feelings and apologized, and this made you feel like I had completely brushed them off and didn't care about your feelings right?" although I don't know if its best to double text her, or just send the screenshot of the apology snap.
tl;dr I made a light tease to a girl ive known for a few years, she got uncomfy from it, I was busy that day and didn't really respond properly until late at night, and the response didn't send so she unadded me the next day.
I would like to know what the best course of action would be to make up here and continue being friends with her, cause the fact is I really did mean to send this apology and show her that I respect her and care about her feelings. I really enjoy her company and want to keep her in my life right now. What is the best way to go about this sticky situation and misunderstanding?
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2020.09.18 07:19 cara-miaa Today, i realized I'm August girl in the story.

When I first heard the trilogy of songs from folklore, I really didn't have any sympathy towards August girl whatsoever. I've always thought that she was the one in the wrong because she put herself in that situation when she perfectly knew he was with someone. But today I realized, what if she was in the dark of the complete situation she never wanted to get herself in but still managed to be in? What if all she did was fall, with her whole heart and soul, for someone she didn't know was unavailable?
Before the lockdown when we still went to school and stuff, I got really close with someone from school. We hung out a lot along with my friends or his and sometimes even just the two of us. We text, day and night, about literally everything because he made me feel like I could trust him with everything and he just KNOWS what to say. We even talked about dating and relationships and we fairly had the same views about it that high school relationships are really just a waste of time and that they don't really last most of the time. But, that didn't stop him from flirting with me. Eventually, he confessed to having a crush on me ever since seventh grade, which was a really long time ago since we are now college freshmen. Then I thought, maybe things could happen between us.
He really gets me. I could be thinking something and he'd be saying it already. He enjoys my punny, sometimes dark and twisted humor that my friends never appreciated nor understood. It even seems like we can never go a day without talking to each other. I never had that kind of relationship with anyone before and I have zero prior experience on the dating scene.
Lockdown happened, then we didn't get to see each other in or out of school anymore. But we still text and call constantly. He was really looking forward to graduation because he wanted to have a photo taken with me in our caps and gowns but that never happened because we just graduated virtually. Months went and our conversations get lesser. He's usually the one to text first since I'm really shy and don't enjoy initiating conversations.
That leads us to today. One of my really close friend uploaded a photo of them together that, without mistake, implies that they are now together. My friend groupchat went off asking stuff about when and how that happened. She said they've been secretly on and off the past year and they finally made it official today. I kinda feel betrayed because I felt that he was leading me on (or was I just assuming?).
It's really times like this that Taylor's songs are there to comfort me and embrace me as I wallow in my sadness and heartbreak. August has been on repeat all day. In a way, it just resonates with my situation.
So yeah.
tldr: never assume stuff. As much as possible ask where you two stand in your "relationship. And also, Taylor songs are cure for everything.
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2020.09.18 06:55 PotatoDog927 I know she likes me up but I’m still scared to ask her out

Just to clear things up: I’m a bi trans male, some things in this post take place before I transitioned so at those parts I would’ve been (socially) a girl.
So I have liked my best friend for a year. We met in early August 2019. She was in my choir class and this was before I transitioned, therefore I was too scared to tell anyone I liked her because I was a girl and my school is mostly homophobic. Anyways, I sat two rows in front of her in choir and I would always look behind me to see her. She was so beautiful even when she was minding her own business, and that’s what I like most about her. Even when she is just living life normally, in my eyes she always seems so amazing. We became friends pretty quickly, as we got along well and had a lot of the same interests. Around the end of last December I came out to her as transgender and she accepted me 100%. Being trans was also helpful to the fact that I liked her because she is straight lol.
Fast forward to late January, we dated for a brief month, but broke up for social (?) reasons, and stayed friends although I still liked her. May 2020, I started dating my ex boyfriend. We were together for almost 4 months until a few weeks ago when he (over text) broke up with me claiming he still liked his ex and I was annoying.
After I got out of that (pretty toxic) relationship, I realized I had put myself in denial of liking my best friend the whole time to be loyal too my boyfriend, and I unknowingly liked her. She still likes me (she’s said so) and we flirt quite a bit, and I really wanna ask her out but 1. I feel like even though she likes me she might not be ready for a relationship and 2. I just recently got OUT of a relationship and I feel like it’s too soon.
I’m just writing this hoping for advice, and if I DO end up asking her out soon, I’ll be sure to update. xx
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2020.09.18 06:47 ThrowRA92148 Did I just cheat?

Basically s/o and I are in an LDR and I was thinking about asking for an open relationship. I downloaded tinder bc I wanted to see if I could find anything that fit what I wanted before asking, and even exchanged numbers with someone. I never planned on meeting up with anyone without talking to my s/o first. I abhor cheating and would never sleep with or even date anyone else without explicitly talking about it w/a partner first.
My conscience eventually got to me and I deleted my account, blocked the person whose number I received, and am now back where I was a few days ago. I never met with anyone, and didn't even really flirt -- just sorta made conversation. Still, I know it's sketchy af and it was done in secret. Did I cheat?

Update: I told my s/o. They're understandably upset, and I don't know what's going to happen. I'm disgusted with myself.
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2020.09.18 06:36 luKasHipHop My (19M) friend (20M) has gotten to be super cold and rude and it’s effecting all of our friends in our friend group(18-25M) chances of getting into a relationship

Backstory: So C (20M) got abused BAD by his ex girlfriend. Emotionally, physically, sexually, the whole nine yards. He’s been single ever since (5 years). Also all of the people I talk about in this are single. There are people who are dating girls in our friend group, but they are fairly inconsequential. C is also new to our friend group. He had a reputation for being very quiet but he started losing weight, he looks good, and now people try to talk to him quite a bit. His words, not mine
Story: So my friends C(20), J(25), K(18), T(21), and myself (18) were all sitting down eating lunch when a foreign, very attractive, Columbian tennis girl at my uni (who in particular K had his eye on since he got to campus) came up to him and tried being sweet and talk to him bout classes and her tennis schedule and asked if he could make it to any of her matches. This girl, who I will call G (20 I think), wasn’t being rude or nasty or mean to C at all. Just nice and flirty (she was VERY touchy, even played with his hair the whole time she was talking, and other clear flirting signs). C’s response?
C: “Does it look like we are busy to you?”
G:” I mean you’re eating, bu-“
C:” Yes. I’m eating. I’m sure anyone else in this table aside us would like to hear about how you play tennis. Congrats. Go on somewhere.”
This is just an individualized example. I can name NUMEROUS, and I mean NUMEROUS examples where he did that cuz he’s mad at all girls cuz of his ex (he knows it’s not right, he went to therapy, he just can’t help it). It’s like a Jeckyll and Hyde thing. When he’s around us and his close female friends and his family, he’s the coolest, most laid back, open, funniest dudes in the world. But when he’s around a girl who he has heard or has shown likes him? Oh dude turns his asshole scale up to an 11, and that makes all of us look back cuz we love C to DEATH. He’s like a brother to us since he prevented one of the sisters of a guy in our friend group from getting raped. He’s a really stand up dude, it’s just when he’s around girls that show any interest, he turns into Satan, and it’s hurting my dating stock cuz when I try to talk to a girl, I just get met with “Ew he’s C’s friend. C is mean to every single girl on campus, I’m sure u/luKasHipHop is the same way.”
I don’t know what to do. It’s hurting all of us in our own right and we wanna talk to him. I can give more details and stories if needed. But we do care for him, but we also don’t wanna be single forever like he does
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2020.09.18 06:24 Goddess-78 I have a question for men here. Do you ever assume that someone is a lesbian?

I am a 22 year old woman and men never hit on me. They don’t ask me out or flirt with me. And I know I could start the convo but I think I’d shit my pants. And sometimes I feel ugly cause it seems like none of my other friends have this issue. Now...
Women hit on me all the time. They flirt with me and wanna go on a date. Which makes me feel great I’m flattered but I like men 😕 Could it be that I just somehow radiate lesbians vibes?
TL;DR: Could it be that men don’t ask me out cause they think I’m into women?
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